The controversy was integral to the purpose of the comment, yes. I made no mistakes. That went according to plan. I'm gonna help that person, just like I do everyone else ✌🙂

There is no supervisor and no position. My wording was vague for a reason. It's not my job, it's my purpose. I do it everywhere I go, and nobody else has a say in it, because I don't break any rules. Ever.

There have been what I suspect were entrapment attempts, but I don't care. Bait is only dangerous if I take it, and I never will. I teach them everything they need to know about safety regarding this kinda thing. I tell them not to trust me, I tell them what grooming is, teach them about metadata and other tracking methods. I don't praise or compliment them.

If I know their parent and I see anything concerning, like if they mention having a phone when I don't think they should, I tell the parent. If they're old enough to have a phone, I tell them phone numbers can be used to track locations, so nobody needs that number just for socializing.

There's other methods for being in contact with someone that are safer. I teach them all about safety, local and internet. I protect them. I'm a sheep in wolf's clothing. Sometimes I feel like I can SEE the frustration in grateful replies because they were sure I was bad, but I'm not 😆

I don't need help. I am help. I didn't make this mess, but I'm gonna clean it up. For everyone.

Don't sweat that target on my back, my dude. It's there because there's nothing to defend ☺ You don't carry a tower shield onto a battlefield and then stick your bare hand out in front of it. The shield is supposed to get hit. ☺🤙

I see the world for what it is. I know nobody's actually a bad person, people only do bad things because they're uncomfortable, and comfort is all anyone really wants.
My sense of self-worth is maxed out, so I'll be the lightning rod for their hatred. If they won't listen to any wisdom, then at the very least they can get some aggression out of their system and calm down. No cost to me.
I got this 🙏🙂

Thanks for that! We need more people in the world who see bad behavior and want to help someone instead of hurt them 🙂🤝

Unfortunately, as soon as I saw them put "manic state" in quotes as if you were using some kind of figurative speech, I started thinking this is gonna be difficult. But I'll always try.

They don't even know what a pedophile is. Probably don't know what mania is. I'm not saying they're dumb, either. It's an education thing. Psychology is left out of many curriculums, so this isn't common knowledge. That's a failure of the society, not the individual. I'll teach it to them they'll listen.

Hehe, poor speaker 🤭

That's hitting a turtle on the shell, my dude 🙂

But like everyone else I meet, you will get from me whatever you seem to need. It's not contingent on how you treat me. I don't think you need to be antagonized.

First, you deserve better than whatever your circumstances are. I don't need to know you in order to say that. It applies to everyone. I know you're not a bad person, because I know bad people don't exist. All antagonistic behavior is born of discomfort.

Second, I do not defend against personal attacks, and I don't deny allegations or accusations. I am secure in myself. That's not an achievement, it's just a decision. It's a decision you can make for yourself today.

By showing you a member of the most unanimously hated group of people in the world, with the most heavily stigmatized interest can still be kind in the face of adversity, and not need validation, by extension I teach you something priceless.

My gift to you is the wisdom to understand that you can do the same. No matter how bad someone wants you to feel about what you are, and no matter how valid their concerns may be, it only hurts if you let it.

"Shaming" is not a thing. Feeling shame is an individual decision. You cannot manually invoke feelings of shame in someone else. You can only manipulate them into making that decision for themselves. And only if they let you. This goes both ways.

That'll do wonders for your mental health and overall long-term wellbeing, which will influence your behavior, which will influence everyone you meet. That's worth more to me than anything that happens between the two of us ✌☺

Unless someone's your partner, employer, parent, or for whatever other reason their favor affects your longterm wellbeing, it doesn't matter if they think you're a serial killer or a messiah. I'm not saying they don't matter. I'm saying you don't have to let them hurt you. Let go of the perceived need to fit in.

So you can take those emotional shackles off now that you know they've always been bracelets. After you stop treating expectations like rules, be more fair to yourself, and get used to feeling happier, I've got a lot more information for you.

You don't know what a pedophile is, you don't know what cowardice is, and you don't know what morality is. That might sound disrespectful, but it's really not. You're in the majority on all three. Most people don't understand those things.

You've also misunderstood some of the things I said, but clarifying them may be interpreted as being defensive, which I don't do. Defense is for vulnerability. I can clarify, but I won't defend. I've done nothing wrong, so there's no vulnerability to defend.

Those last 2 pages. That's the ONLY thing that stops me from dating little girls.

Societal stigma can bite my ass. Laws can bite my ass. Idgaf. I do wtf I want, and I wanna do good.

Those are countermeasures against people who have bad intentions. I don't.

The only thing in the world that's truly wrong is harm. Cringe isn't harm. I'm a saint. I don't hurt people. Anyone would be safe with me, regardless of vulnerability.

But being with me wouldn't be the problem. Being without me is when the problems would start. Unlike in age-appropriate dating, that'd be all but inevitable.

People think age gap dating is wrong because they assume I'll exploit someone. They draw that line because they think a younger person doesn't have a fair chance of seeing it coming, while an older one can fairly be blamed for falling for it.

Bullshit. Vulnerability doesn't justify exploitation. Idgaf how old anyone is, if I exploited them, that'd be 100% my fault. The issue with age gap dating is and always has been the difference in lifespan.

We could be just as healthy as an age-appropriate couple. We could. But decisions should be made with risk/reward ratio in mind. You don't increase your risk if it won't increase your reward. The reward of love is a constant. The risk varies.

She can get the same reward with someone her own age, but with me her risk is higher. She'd spend more time as a widow than someone my own age. After a lifetime of always having been taken care of, never having to fend for herself, she'd feel alone for the first time when she's old.

As an elder it's my responsibility to see that for what it is if she doesn't. I date because I love the world and I want people to be happier. Even if I did everything right with her while alive (and I would) that would still be more harm than good in the long run. That's cruel.

That's why this lolicon is harmless. I love little girls. Key word is "LOVE". Keeping them from loving me is the best thing I can do, because it saves them from missing me. It's a LOT easier since lolis are a cruelty-free substitute. It's not a gateway. It's better. From the bottom of my heart, I'm happy.

Bt-dubs, I don't avoid kids IRL. I'm basically a volunteer guidance counselor. A cat is protecting your mice, because someone makes sure it's never hungry. Meow Mix doesn't have bones or poop in it, so why tf would I wanna gag on a whole-ass mouse when I can crawch-mawnch on a symphony of flavors?
Pass. 🖐🙄

Arigatou, Japan! ✌🥰

This manga is some of the cutest most wholesome heartwarming shit I've ever seen. It's freakin' spectacular that they can still pull that off with such controversial themes at the center of the plot constantly.

I'm high-key starting to believe there's never been anything inherently negative about any form of perversion and that if people just had harmless outlets that were gratifying enough, the world would get SO much better.

Ehh, that was a somewhat dishonest statement. The whole truth is that's a bulletproof fact, the most relevant truth in the world, I've understood it for a long time, and that's why I'm an implausibly virtuous person with an ocean of good deeds even though I like little girls and 99.99999% of the world thinks that makes me evil.

Anyone who thinks a dirty mind outweighs clean hands has not got a healthy mind. Treating this kinda thing like it's the same as the crimes is like treating angry thoughts like it's the same aa physical violence. That level irrationality is absolutely terrifying. But I'm not mad. I know the real reason why they do it.

I'm the sheep in wolf's clothing, and I didn't make this mess, but I'm gonna clean it up. For everyone ✌🥰

Just remember when it feels like the world's been turned upside-down, that's not what happened.

It was upside-down when I GOT here. I'm gonna turn it rightside-up! ☝🥰

Yeah I'm not feeling so good about that decision either. Author is obviously smart af, so they probably got a plan, but idk 🤔

I think it's a healthy lesson that someone doesn't need to be the biggest badass in the room to be a leader, but it's healthiest for people to settle their own beefs whenever possible.

Winning with help is better than dying, fuck all that honorable death mess, but yeah a 1v1 win woulda been better.

Oh yuck, I hope not! That'd be a super awkward roommate sitch.

Wow, I kinda like that. If that's not what happens canonically, I hope there's a spinoff or some kinda fanmade thingy. Sounds like a good idea

I should freakin' hope wouldn't want to.

Our consciousnesses would both effectively be like 50+ years old by the time we met, and we'd have seen each other's circumstances, and seen the same world develop so differently based on one change.

If there's STILL not enough wisdom and perspective between the TWO of us to understand how the world actually works... How fragile life is, that evil has never existed, that people only hurt each other out of discomfort, and that we're all on the same team and we always have been... Neither of us are main character material. Re-write the story at that point 😅

It's taken me (one person with one story from one world on one timeline) less than half a lifetime to figure that out IRL. I ain't even middle aged. Out here livin' like a saint but still lookin' like a snack so yummy it'll spoil yo dinner before you even had lunch. 👏🤣
Fiction oughta be better than reality
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Yeah, they swapped! That magic item the mc used in the first timeline wasn't fully understood, even by him, so for awhile neither of them was sure that was what really happened.

It just seemed to follow logically to both of them that since they woke up as the person they were just fighting, it was the most likely possibility.

They haven't seen each other, but they both found out through research that their old self exists and has changed their name to their accurate one. So they've both known for awhile.

(Responding to the Parody panel at the end)

"I mean, not at the exact same time. In the same session tho. Yuppers! :3 "

We all feel that way to an extent, friend 🙂🤝

But try to understand it from the author's POV. Look closely at what they're working with, and what they're trying to do with it.

If you really think about it, that trait is kind of mandatory. In the harem genre, anyway.

Assuming you like monogamy, once you choose a partner, everyone else is gonna back off.

The first time he picked up on what was happening, the situation would become very normal. They would just date, and the harem would disperse.

There'd be no more flirtation in an ethical form. Unethical stuff would still have an audience, but it'd be more narrow. That's generally not in the best interest of the author.

A story about a monogamous couple could be great too, obviously, but it wouldn't be harem, and that's what they wanna write.

The only plausible way someone could get this much attention from this many people and not get into a relationship is if they're oblivious.

Okay, there's other plausible ways. They could just be scummy and milk the situation for all it's worth. Just tell everyone whatever they wanna hear and play them all. But that wouldn't be a relatable MC to most readers. Narrow audience.

The underlying lesson of the harem genre that the authors want us to learn (the pill wrapped up in the bologna, as I call it 😄) is that we don't want this as much as we think we do. We all want to be desired, but having a harem wouldn't be a bless. It'd be a mess.

Look at all these beautiful likeable people, almost done with their schooling, and almost none of them have dated. They all have such a simple desire, and it's pretty much unanimous what's most important, but still, everyone is unfulfilled.

How would this really make you feel as the one person everyone wants? It'd make me feel horrible. I love all of these people. They all deserve to be happy, and I want them all to have whatever they want, but I'm only one person.

Unless they open their minds to polyamory (chance is virtually nil for teenagers) any decision I make is gonna make a maximum of two people happy, and a minimum of 6 sad. That's not a blessing. That's a curse. I don't want that.

May your roads lead to warm sands ✌️🐱

Hehe, I know this delinquent gang stuff is kinda silly from the ground up since Japan is one of the safest countries in the world and they have very little violent crime, but finding that out didn't make me enjoy these scenes any less. I enjoy them more now.

I know the Japanese are xenophobic in a sense that they don't want me to physically go there, but I doubt very much that many of them genuinely hate me. I can see it in their fiction, all of these healthy lessons embedded... Japan is the Itachi of the countries.

They might not wanna have a beer with me, but they're looking out for me. Just because they know I'm part of the world, and my behavior affects others. To protect me is to protect everyone, including themselves.

They may not have much street fighting, but they know it's not only Japanese people who read their stuff. Nobody would be caught off-guard by seeing a martial arts technique in THAT setting. That stuff is as normal there as football everywhere else.

You probably wouldn't be able to diffuse a situation that easily. If someone was being aggressive, they'd probably be pretty damn determined. They'd probably be assuming you know technique at the very least. Having the balls/ovaries to use it is another matter of course, but yeah, if they weren't ready for a fight, they wouldn't be messing with you.

But in other countries? Maybe. Depends on a lot of variables, and the author doesn't know who the reader is, so they put something in there that's gonna be more useful to foreigners than citizens, not even knowing if they'll become popular enough to attract scanlators.

God, I love authors so much, and Japanese, so Japanese authors are just... Mwah! 😘🤌

No wait, chef's kiss is pretty poggers, but I'm weeb trash and this is a good opportunity to flex my stench!

😳 (Doki doki)

Probably gonna put the words in the wrong order, but whatevs. Making someone laugh is good too, so that'd be like feeding two birds with one scone 😁

Domo tetsudatte itadaite arigatou gozaimasu! 🙇🏻‍♂️🥰

True, but they compensated for it enough, I think. I forgive 🙏😊

Butts are bae, but big warm happy smiles are other bae.

And seeing socially adept people assist socially awkward people with flirtation without making them feel patronized is like having cherry Dr. Pepper injected straight into my heart, especially when they're strangers.

We are unity 🥰

Part 6! Last one!

✌ Second - What you were commenting on was not a little thing at all. It was EXTREMELY significant. It was GINORMOUS. You saw a deeply wounded and exhausted person finally feeling relief that they never could've felt on their own.

You saw them understand for the first time what life is really about. You saw a partially empty health meter fill up, and that's what you live for. What's more, you saw someone who can't decide if they're a tank or damage dealer actually pay attention to their health meter, understand why they won their fight, and thank their healer as soon as the scoreboard popped up.

No, it wasn't real. But for you, it doesn't need to be. You absorbed that lesson secondhand. You got that wisdom without causing any of the harm the characters did, and now it's yours forever. All it cost you was some of your own time. You're already gonna know what to do if you see a situation like this IRL.

THIS is why you almost cried. THIS is your gift. Cry for those who don't have it. Cry for those who can't understand, and take care of them in the ways they can't. Give them whatever they seem to need. People only hurt each other out of discomfort. Most people don't understand that. But the two of you (and anyone else who related to this)...

YOU ARE NOT "MOST PEOPLE".

Not everyone understands it, but you are loved, and you are needed. Don't give up.

My last piece of advice to you (for meow? 🐈) is to examine your team structure closely. Fiction writers are the most powerful healers of all. They're looking out for us more diligently than anyone else. They're the ones who know how to teach. They know they can't just post a sign-up sheet for a "Let me tell you how to live your life, because I know better than you" class, because we won't listen. They embed what we need inside things they know we want. Like wrapping a pill up in bologna for a dog.

They knew the three of us would read this, so they put the wisdom where we'd find it, hoping we could get it down, knowing many of us wouldn't be able to any other way. They know it may be seen as just another person wanting a paycheck, and they may be hated for controversial themes, but they're comfortable with that. They'll always be the MVPs, but we can all get the POG once in awhile! ✊ 😸

May your roads lead to warm sands ✌️🐱
💖🤝🌎

Part 5
I don't believe what we're seeing is good people and bad people. I believe this is unity. Now dont get me wrong ☝ I'm not saying it's perfect and nothing should be changed. It can DEFINITELY be streamlined 🙏 and I'm working on it! What I'm saying is that I don't believe it's just a completely unmitigated irredeemable disaster. I believe that if intelligent design is the truth and it's not just a cruel game, that's probably what we're supposed to be doing. Cultivating more inclusive and less conditional unity on a wider scale.

If that's true, both of you, your roles (and mine) are healers. We are able see through other people's eyes instead of just our own. Like being able to see teammates through walls. We are able to suffer by proxy, and gather data on things we've never been near, so we can help people figure out problems more efficiently, without the need for firsthand experience.

We cannot fairly expect help from the tanks or the damage dealers, because this is not their job. It's not even on their skill bar. They are fighting. IRL has friendly fire, and it's gonna hit us. A lot. That's okay! Retreat for awhile if you need to, because you have less HP, but try not to die. You are Team Humanity's throat, but not all teammates understand anatomy. They're not all gonna protect you. Save the noobs so they can keep practicing and not rage quit. We can all win.

Remember I said there were this many big factors in play here?
👉✌
Well that was only this many 👉☝

Here's the other one, in my last comment 🙏 Almost done!

Part 4
This is not religion. This is science. I'm agnostic. Yes, I know that's a religion. No, I'm not contradicting myself. Just be patient. I think chaos and intelligent design are both plausible, so my lifestyle is tailored for efficiency. I wanna safely cover as many outcomes as I can, without knowing what the rules are, if there are any 👇

IF (ginormous IF) intelligent design is what's up, and there is a purpose to what's happening, I believe people are created incomplete as individuals because a person who has no needs does not reach out to others as much. I believe we are meant to unite and fight as one. I think the darkness that we all have inside us is what we're meant to be fighting against, with each other's help.

I think I know what's REALLY happening at the core of everything when a person stops giving a fuck and just starts fucking shit up. I think they didn't get enough wisdom soon enough, they were treated so badly by the people around them that they found themselves relating to their darkness more than they did to their teammates. I think out of extreme discomfort, they embraced their darkness and stood united against humanity.

Because as bad as their darkness was, it still treated them better than we did.

Part 3
They know you'll be off in the world after they meet you, interacting with their other teammates. They believe you and their team would be safer if your heart wasn't so soft, so they attack. They are comfortable with being viewed as an antagonist if they believe it will cause more good than harm for the collective in the long run.

Cold people must continue to exist, because not everyone can do that. I can't do that. Never. Sometimes they really ARE right about this. Sometimes this condition kills people. Just because it can be utilized doesn't mean it's perfect in its natural state. You don't need to turn off your feelings, but you do need to understand them, and you may need medication. You can still do good.

If your gift hadn't drawnge right kind of attention, it might've lead to your death. If you saw enough people being the polar opposite and insisting that you were the one who's inferior, you may have un-alived. Whatever chain of events causes you to reach out the way you did in this comment is what needed to happen.

The butterfly effect is the most powerful force in the world. If you had never been lead to believe this was a flaw, I never would have found you. That cold person's role in this was a lot less pleasant than mine. They knew you might hate them. But they were comfortable with that. That is their gift. They can't do what I do, but I can't do what they do either.

This is where I cross the line between knowledge and beliefs. If I don't know something's true, I'm not gonna tell you it is. I don't KNOW the rest of this. I BELIEVE this.

Part 2
There's two big factors in play here. That's this many. 👉✌

☝ First, there is NOTHING wrong with either of you. Well, there's a lot wrong with everyone, but this isn't one of your flaws. Being able to feel so deeply without even trying - compassion that transcends logic - this isn't a curse. This is a gift.

Don't misunderstand me ☝ There's nothing wrong with the people who disagree with me on this either. Well, there is, but they are just playing the hand they were dealt. Same as us. They weren't given our gift. They can't understand it.

That doesn't make them bad people. Nobody is bad. We're all on the same team, but we play different roles. When they belittle your feelings on the basis of the characters not being real, they're not trying to hurt you. They may believe they are, but deep down, they know you're their teammate. They are trying to protect you, using their own gifts.

They don't have your compassion, but they have at the very least, basic analytical skills. They don't see an opportunity to hurt a vulnerable person and get off on it. They see a teammate with low HP, but more than 1. It's not so low that you can't take another hit.

They believe that your gift is a vulnerability. Their analysis is not completely invalid. Viewed through the lens of someone without so much compassion, imagine how it must look. If their information was accurate, their conclusion would be fair.

❗❗❗ To the users "LeapedIntoAFantasy" and "resonance" ❗❗❗ and anyone who read their comments and feels similarly.

Sorry it's ginormously long, but I beg you to be patient with me. This is a canon event, and it will change your life ❤🤝 There are multiple comments to it. Character limit.

Sorry, the reply button is bugged, so I couldn't do this in a way that would give you a notification, but I've seen enough of the world to know you're probably gonna be looking at this exact same web page again someday 😉

ReLife is notorious for re-read value, for reasons you've probably already figured out. This is my second time of what I'm sure will be many.

You ask

"What is wrong with me...seriously....why do little things almost make me fucking cry.
When she said: 'I'm happy'
That alone almost got me...like wtf? Whyyyyyy???"

resonance shows similar feelings, and a similar reaction to them.