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Doremiva Victor RE - 1737953611
But how can he understand, when she doesn't say anything? And when he finally gives her time, she didn't use that chance.
I think this arc is more for the wife to learn how to share her feelings, because we see things from her pov. She's the accommodating type, which tend to hold back like this. Maybe it's a Japanese thing, too, having to be polite and not inconvenience others.
I do agree that he should've discussed it with his wife first. Even if it's for "his" work. You're married now, sir. You're responsible for 2 lives, not just you.

Eh, they're new to this relationship, still need to learn to communicate. They both want to make the marriage work, so it'll be fine.
I like that they're showing how problems common in a relationship and how they'll solve it. These two are so adorably awkward, can't help but root for them.
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Doremiva - 1737637153
I kinda forgot, why can't/won't he confess to her? Coz she hates men? He doesn't think he's worthy of her? That sort of stuff?
I can see them withholding being official until they finish college so they don't distract each other. They seem like that serious type. But then maybe one of them is like "the hell with holding back. Let's support each other as a lover! Go out with me!"
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Doremiva - 1737544745
Thank God it's a happy end! I'm so glad she changed.
To those of you who's stuck in a toxic environment and are slowly losing sight of your aspiration, keep up the good fight. Take a breather. Good luck.

PS: in my own experience, I didn't have the grit to change and adapt, so I left instead and took the easy route. But that's because I didn't have #1 and #3 in that particular field of work.
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Doremiva - 1737461469
The real world drinks coffee from an animal's poop (kopi luwak). So, eating chocolate-flavored vomit of a monster....shouldn't be too far of a stretch XD
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Doremiva - 1737393110
She's doing rakugo... in French? Would it translate well?
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Doremiva - 1737375569
Reading stories like this... makes me wish my country's president also care about its people and actually punish the corrupt officials. This is why we read fiction. To escape from reality! Yay!
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Doremiva - 1737228243
Are we going to do another backstory? -_-
Is it bad that I kinda... don't care at this point?
Or is it needed so that our heroes get fueled by the power of anger, revenge, friendship type thing?

Sidenote, as much as I want him to be defeated... I kinda see his point, After all that he's endured, to be told he's useless and dangerous (maybe)... I'd be pissed too.
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Doremiva - 1737227633
Oh, come on Claudia, why the sudden change of mind??? It's cruel to lead the prince on and it's cruel for everyone involved. She was never into 'doing for her family', she was trying to save herself. Suddenly she's just going along the engagement? She hadn't even replied to him. Did they not meet? Did she not need to give her answer?
Do what the title of this book is saying! Don't let the prince bother you!!

I might put this on hold until I see the [end] chapter. Otherwise I'd just get angry reading at every update XD It's bad for my heart.
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Doremiva - 1737227241
"From now on I will protect her" if that line was meant to be 'cool' or heart-melting, well it's not working. I spit on your face for saying that line to someone who has actually been protecting her all this time while you spit on her face. He really doesn't deserve her, not with that attitude. I can't wait for him to be rejected by her.

Sure, it's good that he admits his fault but never even apologized to her. I ended up scouring the previous chapters to look for it and all I found was that he gets so much help from his wingman. Making him realize he's jealous, telling her she's in the garden so he can meet her, trying to get Yulan out of the way, trying to get lady Claudia to join the party so the prince can meet her, all that was thanks to glasses dude. He can't even pursue a woman by himself and he's a prince.

No matter how pretty and shiny you draw the prince, author, I will not fall for it.
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hmm, now that you mention it...
well, let's hope, that whenever we're at our worst, someone will be there to call us out (in private) to stop us from being a bitch.
Does that mean Yulan kinda sucks for not stopping her for being a bitch? He IS her butler/staff. Does he have authority to "advice" her when she's doing wrong, or will he get fired if he steps out of line? I have to reread to remember this..
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Doremiva - 1736447266
pssh, you only like her because she stopped giving you attention (and then realizes her good points but still), Yulan is way better for accepting her even as a jealous woman. What's that saying? "If you don't like me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best"
Too late prince.
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Doremiva MKAZ - 1736261653
oooh Hachi means bee? Didn't know that. Thanks!
So the bee's name is Bee XD
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really? It's unpopular? I didn't know that. It does take longer to be updated than other manhwas.

Maybe because the MC is an "older woman" who already married twice, with kids, etc. There's no romance of first love and 'not like other girls'-ness XD
Also, her badass-ness isn't as visible/noticable as other mc...? Baron has been taking her limelight. Kinda don't like that. I'm struggling to like this pairing, tbh. XD it's like, she likes him because he forced his way into her life so it's not like she can pursue someone else with him scaring off other potential.

But I love seeing her being a mother to the daughters. So.. it's a mixed bag for me.
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Doremiva - 1736260241
Just a kick? Should've done more.
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Doremiva - 1736149489
The bee's name is Hachi?? *flashback to my childhood bee anime: Hachi who was looking for his mother where every episode is so sad. Apparently in English he's named Hutch? Doesn't ring the same way.
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Doremiva Mcmorky - 1736069269
I'd still think husbands should be given the same leniency if it were the wives that does it. At first! If they continue hitting the child even after any sorts of help / intervention, then everyone should lose their shit.
Child abuse is child abuse. No matter which gender does it.
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Doremiva Resaw - 1736069082
It's only the first time happening, as the husband, he could try to figure out why it happened, communicate, get professional help, but if the wife refuses to work together and keeps hitting her child even after all of that, then I'd suggest the same thing you did.

To just immediately say 'that's it. You hit our child for no reason, I'm divorcing you' is simply avoiding the problem, not addressing it.
Who's to say that the husband wouldn't have done the same if he was the one under pressure? (to which, then it's the wife's job to figure out why, get help, etc, and leave when the husband refuses to change).

I think it's better to have these conversations before getting married, so that you won't be surprised when 'shit hits the fan' so to speak. Like, if you're having problems, how would you want your partner to do? Vice versa. What's the best way to address it together without causing a fight?

It's also important to see the signs before it gets this bad. The wife did push herself, even after the husband advice to take less part-time hours. She forced herself because it's her 'dream'. She definitely needs to learn to process things, which I hope she does, but hopefully without the risk of losing a partner just because she wasn't able to do it prior to these unforeseen events.

The husband didn't even try to help. He didn't stop her when she's yelling for the child to stop crying so they can sleep, or try to have a conversation after that. And I might be mistaken, but when he finally said something "hey don't you think it's too much", she yelled back "then why don't you do it?!" there's a speech bubble saying "What?" ...if I assume it's the husband protesting why he should be the one to do it, then... even the husband doesn't want to deal with child rearing either. So no one is a saint here.

I still think it's good that she realizes she'd gone too far. If she hadn't, then it's proof that she's too far gone, and by all means, divorce or keep her child away from her.

Well, this is just my personal opinion though, and I'm not saying you should agree with me. But since you shared your opinion online, I thought I'd share mine as well just to have a counter opinion.

Also...
the author should really put a trigger warning on this chapter though. Child abuse (or any kind of abuse, really) is triggering.
Or at least tag this as psychological or something.
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Doremiva Resaw - 1736057522
While I'm not condoning her action, being in a relationship, especially marriage, doesn't mean you can simply abandon ship when you're upset with your partner's outburst. You work it out first; communication and empathy is important. There's a reason why people say their vow "in sickness and in health, in rich and poor', etc, because it's not just going to be dandy all the time. Humans get upset, just like how you are upset by the wife. That doesn't make you someone not worth love / be in a relationship for being quick to judge.
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Doremiva DwithShwa - 1736041489
Oh yeah! I read that one! I liked the premise. The 2nd couple does seem a bit toxic with their constant bickering, but it's so satisfying to see when they get sweet with each other.
As a Josei/Seinen reader, I've been enjoying Kintetsu Yamada's work. Currently following his on-going series "Kasane and Subaru"
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Doremiva DwithShwa - 1735881417
Ah, I see. I do have some manga that I'm reading that might be similar, but since I'm of the Josei/Seinen age, the story I read usually end up moving on from school to workplace. So do keep that in mind with my recommendation.

"Blooming Love" [ongoing] - highschool -> college. Boy is into art, girl is a taiko drum maker. Got together pretty early, no love triangle, got together pretty early, wholesome stuff.

"Mobuko's Love" [ongoing] - met during part-time in college -> continues after graduate. Sort of love triangle when they're already together so idk if this'll count, no school festival but that's because they don't focus much on their college life per-se, got together early. Oh, the one on this website (ch 83) isn't as updated as mangabat (ch 98)

"You and I are Polar Opposites" [complete] - someone else recommended this too. More comedic, no love triangles, fun side characters ship, I think there's school festival (can't recall for some reason).

== highschool life only, ~maybe recommendation ==
"Rainbow Days" [complete]. - This is an old series, I remember liking that, but I think it had a school festival and a love triangle at the end. Side character ship.
"Soushi Souai (Liberum)" [ongoing] - school life, student council x yankee, I think they have school festival, but it's more dark than this when delving into someone's past. Side character ship(?).
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