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Either she's just like your average old man who likes to wrestle in bed or she's doing it due to style of martial arts/cultivation where she either needs the life energy of men or their yang energy. And that might be due to her yin energy being over the top that she'll need yang energy to balance it, so like insulin.
Really! U still read comics or manga Just personal advice wanted to ask i am stuck at my 20s avoiding hardwork and spending time here running from study but balance both i wanna do it too so it won't interfere with my study etc. How u do it ?
You need a hardcore planning. You gotta divide your day perfectly. And you gotta stick to obsesively. For example you set 9pm to 10pm study hour, even if you are on a bus stuck in traffic, you gotta study somehow. When i was around 20 i was in college i used that method. Studied, exercised, played video games, watched anime. I did not like manga back then. It is exteremely hard and not very rewarding but i was happy to do what i planned to do.
Start with small steps. Don't go all in in the begining. Studying alone was too hard for me, after 10 min i always spanked the monkey. So i tried to sneak into the study groups. Soon after i created my own study group. Finished college with those guys. Even after more than 10 years we are still best friends.
That is how i did. Hope it helped you in some way.
I lack discipline and all and after 2 yrs of wasting i am doubting myself , like fixed mindset but wanna develop growth mindset from now on and be in present, its all i want but not now so conflicted between these 2 voices
You gotta start from somewhere. Discipline is not something you are born with, it requires effort. For example lets say you wanna improve your English writing skills by writing essays. Write one page essay every day. It will probably take 10 min to write one. 10 minutes to analyze it, 10 minutes to take notes. In half an hour time you accomplish 3 task. This will give you enough dophamine to motivate you for another 30 min task. I am not a discipline master myself. I delay stuff all the time but i always spare time to study coding everyday. I did not know anything about coding but now i earn money with Python, c#, SQL, visual basic. As you age and progress in life time becomes more limited. After marriage it becomes almost impossible. That is my opinion tho, someone smarter May have solved all those problems in a more efficient way but i have not met the guy.
I am preparing for a entrance exam , which requires very dedicated study for year for 12+ hrs every day for average ranker to get seat. And its like my Life' s 1st test and already failing 2 time and 3rd probably i am overwhelmed with clear gap or bridge between my ideal self and current self as i study online i need more patience for year and steady effort but i can't seem to put it in practice and numb myself with this I don't wanna talk about it , coz ...... It's very niche stuff for me and probably bothering someone else without consent but i am really stuck but thanks for responding
Well i became addicted in covid to online stuff nit when i am concious and wanna change my hold habit, fear of failure and getting out of comfort zone held me back What's ritalin? Than i will ask if i need advice , thanks sir
Ritalin is a medicine that is given to children with focusing problems like adhd. Alot of adults with similar problems take it. I did not take it at all but some people i know took and according to their testiment, it makes positive difference.
There is also anphetamin but it is not legal because you can make methanephetamine with it. It is also very dangerous. Some people went in coma for months because of it.
I am making an educated guess here and i don't think you are addicted. Addiction hurts you when you don't feed it. You can't replace an addiction with another one. You probably have other kind of problems which can be solved with some counsulting by a pro, not a stranger from the net. Well today most counsulings are like that but you get my drift.
Yeah 1st i don't think i have adhd Second run away from reality coz till now i didn't had clear goal but till now i wasted my parents money and my life's 3 yrs so try new thing or giving myself chance scare me , coz i had thought like " i tried or told that myself before too , but failed , why i give my comfort zone for risk or hardwork when reward is delayed or not guaranteed" and i didn't do e hardwork till mow and kinda immature emotionally and mentally, so i fail to see big picture or run away from it like fixed mindset
I make plans. Plans for the projects, costumers, weeks, interns, subordinates. Then make daily, weekly, monthly and yearly reports. Analyze which goals were accomplished and why others were not. Well that is how i work. How i study is different. When i start, my first goal is to study 2 hours for a week then next week 2.5 then 3. 3 is optimal for me. After a month i analyze how i am doing. Am i slow? If so why? Is the study material or the method? Each week i change a parameter to see what is holding me back.
If you make plans and start doing them little by little you get motivated so you make your plans small at first, like waking up before 10 or something.
You need to teach yourself that you can do stuff. In order to do that you gotta start small. After a while you will definetely get a momentum. But if you keep poundering that you need 12+ hours study everyday while doing no study it will just demoralize you.
I , when starting again i facing problem with self control , self discipline and restraint on scrolling phone or reading manga , what to do about it i wanna be in life where i can read comic like u i mean enjoy or read it as lisure after achieving something not to just escape from hard work or in limit
Well i am not in that good od a place myself. I had to reset my whole career at the age of 35 while expecting a kid. I am still strugling to wrap my head around coding. Finding customers is another hell of itself. Also i am trying to move to another country in the middle of all these. And to get this shtty point in life i had to work and study very hard.
You can't solve your issues just by stopping scrolling phone nor reading comics. You need to eliminate the factor which is leading you to that conclusion. Imo you have self doubt at a very serious level due to the stress caused by prior failures. If i were you, i would let go the useless thoughts such as "i wasted years, money now i am wasting myself". Change your focal point to what matters.
Brother I was very overwhelm and anxiety or over thinking If i look from 3rd pov i was just making mountain of mole hill But i think i was avoiding what must be done unconsciously and I can't face it yet But i will do something about it Just telling as weekly report Do you read any other manga or comic?
I don't know but when i commit myself to something or make up my mind i can keep it up for long main reason is not serious and indisciplined that's why even now i look various ways to get idea how to over come this but in the end i forget them even or don't try which seems too hard or do overthinking Well do read eternally regressing knight of asura scan
Today i again realised my mistake or little time i have and how much i have wasted and regret pilled up that day by day 2 month gone and exam is justa month later which happens once a year only , i due to indiscipline and lack of motivation or so and repeated failure or non serious ness wasted 2 year and seems like 3 years too , i want a growth mindset and accept hardwork , boredom as it is but avoiding it and alternative to it stick to quick gratification activities like manga just to create a bubble of my own now i when i convinced my self again to start again i fear that this time too like previously something may go wrong ,what if i waste another year, what if my hardwork don't pay off ? Etc don't know how to give my all or improve in this appearing month, sorry for long text just too anxious or depressed Pls tell what to do. As bog bro , my parents just straight say , be brave and face it etc but I can't tell them what i say to you
Well you already know the gist of it. You gotta put some work into it. Don't feel bad for repeating another year. If you give up and choose another path you will regret it for life.
I think you need to create a routine first. For example, after breakfast go for a an hour walk. After that rest 10 min then study 45 min. As i said before you need to see a therapist for that. My method works for me but it might backfire on you. Therapy would help you.
Ya i get gist of it but putting hardwork or 100% scares me coz result is uncertain and i have give up on my desire like manga or comfort xine for it and when results is uncertain or no guarantee but i know if i trust and follow process and keep priority straight i will improve and see good future but i forgot it or not etched in mind so i skip it when needed it or when panic , basically i avoid hard work when it gets tough and break my own words feel like shit like cries but srill same ashamed person am , Don't if i can maintain consistency r u on insta where i can chat coz i will be shutting manga so i can't talk to you brother
Then you need to create a growth chart. For a month keep the results of your tests you will see some growth for sure. That would motivate you. We used to do it like that. We would come together and compare our growths among peers. After a while you don't even need to study just solve questions to increase speed. When you are alone it is really hard. The best way to motivate yourself is to keep score. Keep scores of how many question you solve in ten minutes. How many of them wrong. Which type of question slows you down. Etc.
If you wanna avoid uncertainty you need to create your own certainty.
I don't have Instagram. I am kinda busy with changing houses right now so it might take a while. When i say create certainty i meant do stuff whose results can be observed in short amount of time.
For example track how fast you can solve 100 question without a rest for a month.
Hummm. , Actually i found out my fears , isn't there any other way to keep in contact Well I won't be bothering you big brother, you are a bisy man yourself and i am here for my own prblm so i will be patient
these are my fear and i don't have patience to keep my self on track or i hadn't experienced it just guessing from afar
I don't mind exchanging contacts. It is just not a good time at the moment. New house needs a lot of maintenence, last house needs a lot of cleaning. Doing all of those while working and taking care of the kid is really hard. I am going to germany next week for business as well. It is really hectic.
Arbozaliyan not to invalidate the conversation between the both of you, but this is exactly how scammers and other bad actors fish info out of people. Be careful giving out personal info like it's candy. It is just smelling fishy from my point of view.
Well.... I have more People to talk And i guess i can talk to you here but it's too indirect from comments so , contact may give easy access but exchanging contact isn't urgent when u can , u can give me , if i really need advice i can ask here I trying to built or want to built a resilient and tough mindset to not easily swayed by fear to shy away from challenge, and patience to keep it up , it's just i get very demotivate when people say work hard without expecting anything, i know it's for efficiency but it creates doubt like what if i couldn't get there or miss by a margin
I done with 2 ch in a week This week i will aim 4 to 5 ch There's a utuber names james schulz i will follow his live stream from 4 year ago , his situation and mine are almost same and he done what i am planning but don't know how to handle emotion and urge in between good and productive habit and urge , well i will do meditation to keep calm , brother (big bro) u can also try a app medito it's very good
Thanx, it is not that much of respect worthy. I like chatting like this. It is not a burden to me. Sir kinda made feel old. I still don't feel like proper adult. More like i don't wanna feel like one. I fear that Something might die in me.
For me sir is title i will give to someone i learn from And i am talkative too much so i control not to pester anyone But i respect u u may not why but i do respect or in awe
chornydogAt the start, miyamoto was the one who’s above. Now i feel like miyamoto is about to be trumped with tons of obstacles like what Uehara was back in first chapters. They’re switching places.
Lolicon YouTuber AkiWell.. I like reading genderbander series So, I happened to find it while searching one. It's easy to find these old one if u use tag and search backward lol.
MangaguyIm pretty disappointed. Mc last chapter caught the guys attack so effortlessly I thought he had powered up and would finaly dumpster the guy quickly but then struggled the entire chapter making it feel so shit.
GreI am genuinely surprised that Disney’s lawyers haven’t stepped in and called out the castle for being a perfect trace of the one at Magic Kingdom. All they did was add one flag
Cookie Muncherhe was worse. He kept using her empathy against her by giving her despairing feelings. Not to mention he forced her to take his injuries (marys embrace) after he used his last stand skill. He even threw her into a dangerous situation where she would have died if she missed her shot AND couldn't finish off doge with her regular dagger.
AnonymooseThey set themselves up for failure from the get-go. The part I'm really anticipating is them doing the obvious and trying to find his real self to blackmail him. Which would fail horribly cuz one of their members knows him and likes him, so info would probably leak immediately and they'd get torn to shreds for attempting to blackmail him.
Also his image would go up immensely the moment people find out the circumstances that got him into streaming in the first place.
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